Hey, sex relaxes what ails the mind. I've only been with one woman in my entire life, image, and I'm still with her. I didn't intend to insult your morals. If you must be in love to have sex, then seek love, and have sex later. Most guys I know love the girls they're with, but weren't in love with them before they were with them, if you catch my meaning
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A lot of guys are wound so tight, and I find that after they've had sex once in a while, they let go of a lot of tension. Perhaps love is what you need.