/sigh
did you check the guide?
Play Guide:
http://www.eqemulator.net/forums/viewtopic.php?t=9649
Server Setup Guide (v0.4.4)
http://www.everquestserver.com/serverguide.php
Server Setup Guide (v0.5.x)
http://www.eqemulator.net/forums/viewtopic.php?t=9648
and dont forget: Running a Better Server, by JAW.
http://www.everquestserver.com/tips.php
You can find everything you need in there.
~Dan