Flaming is part of change, you don't know what the problem is and you will not learn from it. Hearing other peoples opinions is what posting is all about, their reactions, their feelings. No Flaming, and noone would know if something is wrong.
We all wish we could not be flamed, but flaming is just a part of life, learn to live with it, you adjust to it, it doesn't adjust to you.
Besides, you learn from it.
Edit: And What Trumpcard Said
Forgot that one. Good Catch.