ok step by step for ya


Step=1 go to http://www.eqemulator.net/

Step=2 on the left side click Guides
-Menu
- News
- Item Contributors
- Collected Items
- Faq
- Guides
- Irc Chat
- Forums


Step=3 you will see
Play Guide for 0.5.0 Servers:
- Play Guide - How to connect to eqemu servers.

click on Play Guide

follow the directions