Dont feel badly, I am having problems with it too.. hehe I think I am holding my teeth wrong or something..... There is a guide here that is for Linux, but should work on FreeBSD ( I just dont know enough about dependencies and all that to get it working, trying to wheen myself from windows hehe), and you can find it here:
http://www.eqemulator.net/forums/viewtopic.php?t=6489 Near the bottom of the post. Hope that helps some..