I fixed the problem.
Before my db.ini file read:
[Database]
host=
localhost (also tried 127.0.0.1)
user=eqemu
password=eqemu
database=eq
compression=off
I changed it to my actual IP Address:
[Database]
host=
192.168.0.146
user=eqemu
password=eqemu
database=eq
compression=off
Now I'm getting some new errors...but's that's a whole other post

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Thanks for the help!!