AAAH Jado, I JUST noticed you said you dont run your own server.. Then your answer lies in the #movechar command... If you have that command available to you (youll have to do a #help in game to find out if that command if available to you)... If it is then just make a new char and then while in game type #movechar <name of your other char> <zone you want to move them to> and then should be able to log back on to that char...
If you do NOT have this command you will need to make a new char and contact a GM and let them know, and THEY will do the #movechar command for you....
