1. Wipe out your eqemu folder that you installed the server in
2. Delete your mysql database
3. Go to the forum titled Tutorials and Howtos and find one of the stickied ones regarding server setup and follow the directions including the one regarding adding the account record
4. Follow directions for editing your eqhosts file and connect.
If you follow that, you should be able to connect in as GM with no problem (you might also wanna download the server guide - also a sticky in that forum I believe).
If you have patched since the 18th, none of the above applies though. If that is the case, you are pretty much screwed until the devs finish testing the new code changes required for the patch.
One other clue, the attitude trip is not a good way to get help around here. Wize_one was very correct in what he posted. If you would have used search or went out and looked at the posts in the other forums instead of getting irrate when it was suggested, you may have been able to have been up and running by now instead of sitting there with your blood boiling and alienating yourself from the community.
We are all here to help each other, but at least have the courtesy to do some leg work or let us know what you have tried. If someone suggests you search, that simply means the question has been asked before and there is an answer out in the forums. If when everyone had a problem they simply posted it without searching, all of the useful information in the forums would be drowned out by people asking the same questions and this project would be dead because all anyone would have time to do is answer the same questions over and over again. That is why people suggest that you use search and that is why they get irrate when you flame them after they suggest it.
At any rate, follow the steps above and you should be able to get it going. If you can get in and can't use commands, download the server handbook and browse through the commands section.