First off all your *.ini's and *.bat's look fine.
/em applaud
Your at least far enough ahead of the rest that I'll try and help you out.
Second read
THIS post.... whether or not your realize it.. your question is answered here.
Next after this is going to take a little work do to we are going to have to make config changes in your router.. also I will have to explain exactly what we are doing as. The config changes we make in your router have a good chance of breaking as soon as your IP changes.
Please say your a computer tech....?????