I see your server on the list but get kicked back to login after selecting it.
A Wireshark capture shows me this:
Code:
Internet Protocol Version 4, Src: 192.168.1.48 (192.168.1.48), Dst: 71-x-x.137.dhcp.stls.mo.charter.com (71.x.x.137)
Destination Unreachable Code: 13 (Communication administratively filtered)
Assuming 71.x.x.137 is your external IP address.
Apparently 'Communication administratively filtered' means a router along the path (maybe yours) is blocking the communication.
Anyway, packets from me to your server on port UDP/9000 are being blocked by your router or your ISP.
Also, to appear on the login server, port forwarding is probably not necessary, since the connection from your server to the public loginserver is outbound from you to the loginserver. Port forwarding applies to inbound connections from the Internet to your server, so it is probably your port forwarding that is the problem.
i.e. Your port forwarding could be completely borked but your server would still appear on the public loginserver, but when a player tries to connect to your server, that is when the port forwarding on your router comes into play.