if you're not a teenager, you really need to take a step back and assess your behaviour. you are worse than nick burns the IT guy from the SNL skit.
while i don't agree with why he thinks you can't do it, i think you are trying to do too much too soon, Dryamzord01. i'm sure you are smart enough to figure it out, because it doesn't require much beyond a little experience.
you got stuff installed and it mostly worked? back it up -- label it with a description in folder name etc. make heavy use of backups -- even of config files when you change them... make a copy as <file name>.old or .backup1.
run into problem, step back to last backup... figure out cause... google search the forums
append "site:http://www.eqemulator.org" to any google search
e.g.
login.ini ip site:
http://www.eqemulator.org
or the wiki site or whatever.
like the sql questions above, there's a finite # of combinations you can try that make sense. if that doesn't make sense, you need to read up on this stuff and learn some basics before someone can help you more easily. you'll need to know some basics or people can't help much.