Not Connecting to my server

[MattrStrikes]

I have one comp for the server and one for the game itself. I am using minilogin on the comp for playing and using the shortcut to everquest with the added 'patchme' is this the wrong way to play on minilogin? How do I connect to my server?? The login asks for a account and password but in the guide it says you only need to put in an account name. AHh help please! Ive been working on this for like 10 hrs!

[MattrStrikes]

when I click minilogin I get: "....server mode: minilogin, Login server listening on port 5999, Starting factory reader, starting factory writer" then nothing happens.When do I get to type in the account I made for myself? ------ also in the ini under server name do I put eq, since thats what it is on MySQL or the name I gave it editing my eqemu_config?