Well i managed to get a manual server up and going and can log in on same computer just fine woot. Now im trying to set it up for lan and later for public. I have followed all directions here
http://www.eqemulator.net/forums/showthread.php?t=25898 and everything seems to be right but for somereason im getting A time out error has occured no matter wich other computer in lan i try to log on with. I do have account set up for each computer using there lan ip's. The lan is functioning seeing how i can see all computers and transfer files from one to another. Not sure if this is a mysql, minilogin or eqemu issue, im completely stumped.