You only need to open 9080 if you want to use the web page tools. It is handy, but not required. You have it enabled in your config, so you might as well open the port for it. You can then get logged into it by setting a password for your GM account in the accounts table password field. Then, go to:
Code:
http://localhost:9080
And log in with your GM account name and the password you set in the accounts table. It is definitely worth checking out.
As for your server config, I see you configured this section:
Code:
<!-- address has to be specified for minilogin to work -->
<address>pelican.no-ip.biz</address>
<localaddress>192.168.2.5</localaddress>
If you are setting up a public server, you almost always want to leave that section commented out like this:
Code:
<!-- address has to be specified for minilogin to work -->
<!-- <address>pelican.no-ip.biz</address> -->
<!-- <localaddress>192.168.2.5</localaddress> -->
Otherwise, you will have weird connection issues like you are reporting.