Using own login server for personal server

[scerion]

Greetings,
My apologies if this is in the incorrect area, but looking for a little help with trying to set up my own personal server.
The walkthroughs mostly keep pointing to setting up a private server within your own house/network, or they refer to using the EQEmu server login. I have a external server in a data center that I'm using, and wondering how all I need to set that up. I'm a little bit lost in the configuration.

Basically, what do I need to do for using my own log in server?
Do I still use the defaults provided?
Or do I set up the minilogin server?

In my config file...would I need to set the IP and server name since I'm going with my own server?

/lost