Can't get it.

[naik]

Ok..
I have a server running under linux.
Minilogin under windows on one server, 192.168.1.103
Zones and world files under linux on another server. 192.168.1.104

At first, I could connect to the game no problems from any computer on my local lan.. ALl is good. BUT. jumping to my Computer on my dsl line (another wan, seperate network) I could not connect.
SO. I switched around some ips in the loginserver.ini, (think thats the name) and could then get my WAN account to work but no longer do my internal ones work.
SO then i set it up to play on EQEMU' with thier login servers and I had one person get in and make a char then it dumped him to the server select when he tried to zone in. And No one could conencted after that.
So I went back to where i had it. Running minilogin, and the server Now i am back to being able to conenct to it with 1 account on my lan, but none other ones.... Damn can't figure it out.
The best way would be to run off the eqemu login servers. but for the life of me can't figure out why it wasn't working properly in all 3 of the above examples.
I have learned some things and take good notes.
anyhow if anyone has any ideas let me know... I would love to get a server up and rollin one way or the other.
Thanks