First person outside my IP who tried to connect to my server, it fails.

[malakath]

Here's what he told me.

well i got it in windowed so i can see it cause it messes up in fullscreen
and it goes black
then goes non responsive after like 30 seconds
then eventually if i let it sit it takes me back to login

I already heard that it might be a port forwarding issue, the computer with the server on it has a static IP now and the ports are forwarded. The person installed the game off of a legal copy of Titanium, didn't patch. Even the first time around when he DID patch he was able to connect to every EQemu server except mine. That's still the case. Are there any other things that may be causing a problem like that?

I am using the public loginserver, by the way, and there are already 3 people from my LAN who can connect and play just fine. I don't see why only other people on the LAN should be able to connect to something that's hosted on the public loginserver at all.