I followed:
http://www.eqemulator.org/forums/showthread.php?t=32980 (Huppy Rulez)
to the letter and my server is up and running here on this site.
I would like to now transfer my server to a private server where my LAN can access it and friends from the internet can access it.
Because the forums are so filled with fantastic information I am unsure which login server is the one to use and which set of instructions will allow an idiot (that would be me) to set it up.
Any suggestions would rock.
Thank you very much.