Okay I am running 4.2. To fix my problem I did this. I had read an older thread to try this. I used EQAdmin. I opened up edadmin with my mysql database up and scrolled over to the right there is a box that say id_number. I placed a 0 in it and then clicked add a record. Then I clicked on preferences at the bottom and clicked okay. I also try this in conjunction with this. I copied my eqemu folder with my 4.2 world files into another folder. My plan was to try and open world. exe in one folder and boot5 file in the other folder that I had copied. World loaded fine. Boot5 didnt, it would stop loading right after trying to load the emusharemem.dll file. So I placed the zone.exe and emusharemem.dll file from 4.1. Tried it all again and whala, I am up and running and zoning while in my own little eqemu world. This rocks.

I hope this can help those that are having the same problem as I.