Oh, hee hee.

Sorry.
So you are entering your name, pwd, and never see the login server at all? Since there is no eqgame.exe error, it's not something obvious. On your router/firewall, do you have IP logging enabled? You might be able to check your outgoing log, see if your IP is trying to get to eqemulator.net at all. If not, your PC firewall is still blocking you.
Otherwise, you can also try deleting eqclient.ini and letting the client create a new one. Maybe something is messed up with the resolution (which usually causes me to get a crash in eqgame.exe though).