Looking for a server.

[dubbtherogue]

I haven't been around for a while, but I'm considering playing a little again.

What I'm basically looking for is a friendly server community where playing just ONE character is a viable option. I know I can technically play just one character on any server, but the truth is that 90% of the time the solo player sits around LFG far more often than is enjoyable. Yes, I'm capable of boxing with the best of them, as anyone that knows me can attest to, but it just isn't my preferred style of play. I'm looking for an EQEmu in which I can interact with others more freely and regularly. I'm looking for teamwork, and not just when it comes down to raiding uber_mob_42. A place where people group because they want to, not just when they need a few more able bodies to take down baddies for phat lewtz.

I know of servers -- good servers even -- with IP limits. Still, they are set to 3-4 and folks tend to branch off with their mini multiboxed armies and slip into antisocial mode. And in the past I've either eventually wound up with my own army just to 'get in the game,' or started looking for another server.

Any servers out there that limit IP connections to 1-2? Any servers that truly feel they have a friendly community? A server where OOC flame wars are refreshingly absent? I don't want to be immersed in the poo-flinging "lolz pwnage" juvenile mentality that seems so common. I'm not here to offend anyone if your server fits this description, it just isn't for me personally.

I know I might be chasing a unicorn here, but a man's gotta try, right? Does such a server exist? Am I asking for too much? Thanks in advance for any responses.

[dubbtherogue]

And I really meant to put this in the server discussion forum. :|
Sorry. If anyone wants to move it, I'd be grateful.

[KingMort]

Hey there, Raid Addicts sounds like it would be a great fix for your needs.. It's mostly dedicated to raiding but there is also tons of alternate progression. Trade skills, Quests, Solo / Group content.. There are plenty of guilds to associate with as well..

King Mortenson
www.raidaddicts.org

[backman_66]

www.shardsofdalaya.com

[Decai]

Having played on Shards of Dalaya, I would only recomend that server if you want a totally screwy resist system, a hot air ballon inflated economy, and the inability to make the money to buy anything until your 60+. The only redeeming factor to that server is the treasure maps, those are the only real fun. Other than that, its kinda lame. I would try Stormhaven or the Grand Creation.

[backman_66]

I'm just recommending a mature place with a healthy population supply at all times. It's one of the best servers to find people to play and group with. The server has been around for just about 5 years now IIRC and it's solid as a rock. The game is more difficult than live if you want more of a challenge. If you're into raiding, the raid cap is 18 players (3 groups), which means each person plays a pivotal role and is important for the raids. There is several raid zones fully populated and several raiding guilds.