I think I got the executables, not 100% sure but there's a Build directory under \EQEmu Server Files\trunk\EQEmuServer that has a blue ? next to it, which i assume means it's in the SVN folder but SVN doesn't know what to do with it.
I dropped my old database (goodbye old chars!) and am running peqdb_rev1549.sql ... the instructions on
http://www.eqemulator.net/wiki/wikka.php?wakka=VS2008 say to run the sql in \EQEmu Server Files\trunk\EQEmuServer\utils\sql\svn
So does that mean the only SQL i need to run now is bots.sql
botsconvert.sql and 1562_instanced_spawnconditions.sql ? (not sure what botsconvert.sql is for tho)