Please help pretty please :D

[firedemo]

Heya all!.
Ive just joined Eqemu throughout a friend, and wanting to play. but the problem is, ive been on for 6 hours downloading all the stuff, and i still cant log on! please help, my problems are, that the only way i get into eq, is throughout the patcher. and when i do enter. i go through servers and loading screen, but when its finished loading world, it crashs to desktop? what should i do. also it says whens i go into patcher. that im missing the file of Discard.log. Please help!!!
Thankyou for your time
and hope to join you later on in the game
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Firedemo

[Ademonde]

discard.log isn't important, and as for the crashing to desktop - just keep trying to log on or try and log on other servers