Thank you so much for all of the help. I think I might just have everything set up right. i tried to follow everything in the guide. 
The only problem that I am running into right now is this:
I run boot5zones, world, then attempt to launch eq (patchme etc) and no matter what i try to login with, it stays at the login screen saying "Establishing connection with login server" but nothing ever happens. I am attempting to run my own server, etc.
here's some of my setup files:
eqemu_config:
<?xml version="1.0">
<server>
	<world>
	    <shortname>For Dani</shortname>
	    <longname>Rhayneal</longname>
	           
	<!-- Only specify these two if you really think you need to. -->
	    <!--<address>Serving Machines IP</address>-->
	    <!--<localaddress>127.0.0.1</localaddress>-->
	   
	<!-- Loginserver information.  -->
	    <loginserver>
	        <host>eqlogin1.eqemu.net</host>
	        <port>5999</port>
	        <account></account>
	        <password></password>
	    </loginserver>
	    <!-- Sets the shared key used by zone/launcher to connect to world -->
	    <key>some long random string</key>
	    <!-- Enable and set the port for the HTTP service. -->
	    <http port="9080" enabled="true" mimefile="mime.types" />
	</world>
	<!-- Database configuration, replaces db.ini. -->
	<database>
	    <host>localhost</host>
	    <port>3306</port>
	    <username>root</username>
	    <password>999999</password>
	    <db>peq</db>
	</database>
</server>
and 
eqhost says
[Registration Servers]
{
"localhost:3306"
}
[Login Servers]
{
"localhost:3306"
}
Thanks for any and all help!!!!