Are there any tricks to getting bots and players working together well in a single group?  My wife and I are starting to play together but everything I add her to my group with my 4 bots things are a little strange.  Sometimes I am completely invisible to her, though my health bar is greyed out like I am offline.  Other times I have no health bar at all on her screen but she can at least see my character and click me to heal.   If I start the group with her and I, then add my bots, they will not function at all and just stand in place.  So I always have to start my group with them then add her at the end.
Anyway, just hoping there is some simple workaround I am missing to making this smooth. 
This is on a private server on version 0.8.0 server with rev 974 PEQ database.