I know I already emailed you this, but now I'm testing to see if I can post again,
and this might be of interest to someone else
You could try this but like I said, 256 mb is probably way to little ram
Run MSCONFIG, go to startup and services tabs, disable as much as you can there. I do this anyways, as it helps speed up my system and hopefully free up more ram. here's a starting point for this,
http://www.onecomputerguy.com/window...rvices_disable
Also, for example, if you have a router, then you don't really need the windows firewall, router has it's own firewall, disable it in MSCONFIG.
Everquest recomends you use at least 500 mb of ram to run the client, so you know if you run the client on your EQEMU server machine, it's going to hog up you memory also. You should try login from another machine in the LAN .
edit;
I got rid of all my parenthesis, and it finally posted.