Appears to be an issue with memory.

[Aerewen]

ah actually i just pulled up my doors table and i numbered them setting NULL for id so it auto incremented properly...

so that's definitely not the problem :p

but what i'm seeing on the server machine is:

footprints on the processes tab don't change.
memory usage on the Performance page goes up the longer the server runs.
-only seems to increase when people have connected, created a character, or done something actively on the server

so if the footprints arent changing, but memory use on the machine is, and the server is the only app running... the only possible explanation i can see is a memory leak