My server runs on lan but not through internet

[Bakersman]

been getting this problem since i started on this server thingy, i have my minilogin working fine on another server with the new peq yekesha beta 1 and this server runs well and is up and going on the server list and i can connect through my internal lan and i am sure it is a networking problem but i am not sure where in my config.xl/loginserver scripts i am going wrong, i have gone through the forum pretty good and for the most part with slight modifications i have gotten my server up and running, which is listed THE BLACK HAND, but when i get a friend to try to connect or my brother from his place they get bumped out to the main login screen but they see the server fine, if someone can kinda guide me a bit with where i am going wrong, that would be great and thank in advance


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start.bat
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@echo off
start world.exe
cls
echo Wait for World to finish loading... Press Enter when done.
pause
start eqlaunch.exe zone
exit


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eqemu_config.xml
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<?xml version="1.0">
<server>
<world>
<shortname>TBH</shortname>
<longname>!!!~ THE BLACK HAND ~!!!</longname>

<!-- Only specify these two if you really think you need to. (read: You don't) -->
<!-- <address>216.**.***.**</address> -->
<!-- <localaddress>192.***.*.***</localaddress> -->

<!-- Loginserver information. Defaults shown -->
<loginserver>
<host>eqemulator.net</host>
<port>5998</port>
<account></account>
<password></password>
</loginserver>

<!-- Server status. Default is unlocked -->
<!--<locked/>-->
<!-- <unlocked/> -->

<!-- Sets the ip/port for the tcp connections. Both zones and console (if enabled). Defaults are shown -->
<tcp ip="localhost" port="9000" telnet="disable"/>

<!-- Sets the shared key used by zone/launcher to connect to world -->
<key>some long random string</key>

<!-- Enable and set the port for the HTTP service. Defaults are shown -->
<http port="9080" enabled="false" mimefile="mime.types" />
</world>

<!-- Chatserver (channels) information. Defaults shown -->
<chatserver>
<host>channels.eqemulator.net</host>
<port>7778</port>
</chatserver>

<!-- Mailserver (in-game mail) information. Defaults shown -->
<mailserver>
<host>channels.eqemulator.net</host>
<port>7779</port>
</mailserver>

<zones>
<defaultstatus>20</defaultstatus>

<!-- Sets port range for world to use to auto configure zones -->
<ports low="7000" high="7100"/>
</zones>

<!-- Database configuration, replaces db.ini. Defaults shown -->
<database>
<host>127.0.0.1</host>
<port>3306</port>
<username>********</username>
<password>********</password>
<db>********</db>
</database>

<!-- Launcher Configuration -->
<launcher>
<!-- <logprefix>logs/zone-</logprefix> -->
<!-- <logsuffix>.log</logsuffix> -->
<!-- <exe>zone.exe or ./zone</exe> -->
<!-- <timers restart="10000" reterminate="10000" initial="20000" interval="2000"> -->
</launcher>

<!-- File locations. Defaults shown -->
<files>
<!-- <spells>spells_us.txt</spells> -->
<!-- <opcodes>opcodes.conf</opcodes> -->
<!-- <logsettings>log.ini</logsettings> -->
<!-- <eqtime>eqtime.cfg</eqtime> -->
</files>
<!-- Directory locations. Defaults shown -->
<directories>
<!-- <maps>Maps</maps> -->
<!-- <quests>quests</quests> -->
<!-- <plugins>plugins</plugins> -->
</directories>
</server>

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loginserver
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[LoginServer]
loginserver=eqemulator.net
loginserver2=
loginport=5998
loginport2=
worldname=-=THE BLACK HAND=-
worldaddress= 216.**.***.**
locked=false
account=
password=

[WorldServer]
Defaultstatus=
Unavailzone=

[ChatChannelServer]
worldshortname=
chataddress=
chatport=

[LoginConfig]
ServerMode=public
ServerPort=5

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again i know i am getting through to this server through public server setup over my internal lan, on another computer on this network, but getting to it externally via the internet i cannot connect nor can others.