Need help configuring for others to connect

[Manix25]

I cant seem to get the settings correct for letting people log into my server.I have been working on it for a while now and I have run out of all ideas as to what to try next.Here is info on hom I have it set up.

Here is the important info from running a ipconfig/all command

IPv4 address-192.168.1.*** (this is the static IP i created for my comp)
subnet mask-255.255.255.0
default gateway-192.168.1.1
DNS 1-68.87.71.***
DNS 2-68.87.73.***

Here is the settings I have set on my router set up.

Internet IP address-76.119.242.12 (the IP I recieve from myip.com)
subnet mask-255.255.248.0
gateway-76.119.240.1
static DNS 1-68.87.71.***
static DNS 2-68.87.73.***

Network set up(still in router settings)

Router IP-192.168.1.1
subnet mask-255.255.255.0

I have DHCP server switched to disabled

I have gone to security and unblocked anonymous internet requests

All my ports are open to my static IP address(192.168.1.***)

DMZ is enabled to my static IP address(192.168.1.***)

Here is my eqemu_config.xml info

<server>
<world>
<shortname>NTO</shortname>
<longname>!New Tribuanl Order!</longname>

<!-- Only specify these two if you really think you need to. (read: You don't) -->
<!-- <address>76.119.242.12</address> -->
<!-- <localaddress>192.168.1.***</localaddress> -->

<!-- Loginserver information. Defaults shown -->
<loginserver>
<host>eqemulator.net</host>
<port>5998</port>
<account>*****</account>
<password>*****</password>
</loginserver>

<!-- Server status. Default is unlocked -->
<!--<locked/>-->
<!-- <unlocked/> -->

<!-- Sets the ip/port for the tcp connections. Both zones and console (if enabled). Defaults are shown -->
<tcp ip="localhost" port="9000" telnet="disable"/>

<!-- Sets the shared key used by zone/launcher to connect to world -->
<key>some long random string</key>

<!-- Enable and set the port for the HTTP service. Defaults are shown -->
<http port="9080" enabled="false" mimefile="mime.types" />
</world>

<!-- Chatserver (channels) information. Defaults shown -->
<chatserver>
<host>channels.eqemulator.net</host>
<port>7778</port>
</chatserver>

<!-- Mailserver (in-game mail) information. Defaults shown -->
<mailserver>
<host>channels.eqemulator.net</host>
<port>7779</port>
</mailserver>

<zones>
<defaultstatus>0</defaultstatus>

<!-- Sets port range for world to use to auto configure zones -->
<ports low="7000" high="7100"/>
</zones>

<!-- Database configuration, replaces db.ini. Defaults shown -->
<database>
<host>192.168.1.***</host>
<port>3306</port>
<username>***</username>
<password>***</password>
<db>eq</db>
</database>....


If anyone can see anything I have set up wrong,any help would be appreciated.If more info is needed let me know.Thanks.