Cannot Connect Whatsoever

[Aranai]

First off, let me say that I HAVE read through many pages of forum posts looking for the answer to this.

After discovering that Anniversary wasn't compatible, I found and installed Titanium. I did NOT patch it to Live, and changed the eqhost document. I made the proper shortcut, and I've been trying to get it to run. It stilll seems to think it's connected to Live, though. I try to log in using the EQEmu name and password I specified here, but I get the standard error:

"A connection to the server could not be reached. Please check your internet connection to make sure you are online.

If the problem persists, please check our Network Status and Sceduled Downtime pages for updates. If the problem persists, please use our Help Link for further assistance."

I am just trying to connect to a "standard" server for the moment, not a minilogin. All of that said, what should I do?