How do you go about setting up a remote connection to your database? I think I have it all figured out, but I can't get it working. Basicaly I have port 3306 forwarded to the server and I want to use Database tools on my laptop so I can finaly break away from my desk

sitting at a desk all day at work makes me less excited about doing it at night too lol. I think I have everything setup right on the server, but maybe im missing something... is there a guide anywhere, or some pointers? I'm tired of making changes on one machine and then sourcing them into the server.
Thank you,