LAN plays great, WAN play not so much...

[provocating]

I can play from anywhere, multiple people. I normally will even log in at my lunch break. I am using a DYNDNS account so I can probably help you.

<?xml version="1.0">
<server>
        <world>
		<shortname>Classic</shortname>
		<longname>AX Classic</longname>
		<address>fakename.dyndns.org</address>
		<localaddress>192.168.0.10</localaddress>
		
        <loginserver>
		<host>127.0.0.1</host>
		<port>5999</port>
		<account>admin</account>
		<password>admin</password>
        </loginserver>
                <key>make_your_key!</key>
                <http port="9080" enabled="true" mimefile="mime.types" />
        </world>
	<chatserver>
		<host>fakename.dyndns.org</host>
		<port>7778</port>
	</chatserver>
	<mailserver>
		<host>fakename.dyndns.org</host>
		<port>7779</port>
	</mailserver>
        <database>
                <host>localhost</host>
                <port>3306</port>
                <username>eqemu</username>
                <password>mypassword</password>
                <db>peq</db>
        </database>
</server>

In my router I am forwarding

5999 TCP and UDP
9000 TCP and UDP
7778/7779 TCP and UDP
7000/7100 TCP and UDP

Now the reason for the last 100 forwards is because I have 100 static zones.