Error 10061!?

[DamiusTch]

I'm getting "Error: LoginServer::Connect: 'TCPConnection::Connect(): connect() failed. Error: 10061" when i run World
I'm on Windows ME and i'm using the latest versions of SQL and EQEmu. I'm TRYING to host my own server and well it's not working obviously =) I've looked at ReadMes and these forums and asked ingame and on IRC

db.ini
[Database]
host=localhost
user=DamiusTch
password=
database=eq

Loginserver.ini
[LoginServer]
loginserver=eqlogin1.eqemu.net
loginserver2=eqlogin2.eqemu.net
loginport=5999
loginport2=5999
worldname=Damius's Test
locked=false
account=
password=
worldaddress=12.216.41.212

Anyhelp would be greatly appreciated.