Cannot get past char select....

[Prodigality]

I've been having an issue on the 5.3 DR2 servers of when i try to enter world, ill sit at the big EQ screen for like 5 mins, then ill disconnect. I've only heard of one other person with this error, or problem, or handicap, whatever you want to call it. Most of the time this happens with my higher level characters that have gear on them(i mostly play on legit servers), but sometimes it happens with brand new off the assembly line toons as well. Another note on this, is if i wait long enough, usually 2-5 hours, i can get that char in, till i go to the wrong zone on accident, or go LD... anyone with any clue of what's happening, please post. There probably isn't a fix, probably have to wait it out... but any help is GREATLY APPRECIATED!

P.S. Ill list the characters i have the most woes out of below, if it is any help.
Xiao Lyn(t)-Level 31 Monk-Dynasty
Plague-Level 1 Shadow Knight-Dynasty
Booger-Level 6 Shadow Knight-Dynasty
Cheech-Level 4 Ranger-Dynasty
Flex Meister-Level 65 Monk-Shawn319's
Xiao Lyn(t), Master of the Shao Lin-Level 65 Monk-Shawn319's

Thanks :P