Can't Connect to Server

[Angelox]

<tcp ip="____MY IP____" port="9000" telnet="disable"/>

"____MY IP____" should be your exterior IP or if you got a dynamic DNS, better - by exterior, I mean what your ISP gave you.

here's exactly what i put in my hosts, and use the same order;
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192.168.2.100 blackwater.dynip.com
127.0.0.1 blackwater.dynip.com
127.0.0.1 localhost
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try this while I look at the rest of your post - use your own machine ip/dns though

[Angelox]

<key>some long random string</key>

put a random string in here!

example: <key>122jsdhdefkflew676883ksjhs8is98s</key>

[Tsunamic_Tuna]

it still has the same error and everything after that... still clueless...

[Angelox]

Are you sure they are using Everquest Titanium?

[Tsunamic_Tuna]

yes. because they can connect to every other server in the server select just fine. just not mine for some reason... it boots them back to login screen

[Angelox]

Let me see your eqemu_debug_zone log

[Tsunamic_Tuna]

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[06.25. - 21:39:49] Starting Log: logs/eqemu_debug_1208.log
[06.25. - 21:39:49] [LAUNCHER__INIT] Loading server configuration..
[06.25. - 21:39:50] [NET__WORLD] WorldConnection connect: Connecting to the server {MYIPCENSORED}:9000 failed: TCPConnection::Connect(): connect() failed. Error: 10061
[06.25. - 21:39:50] [LAUNCHER__ERROR] worldserver.Connect() FAILED! Will retry.
[06.25. - 21:39:50] [LAUNCHER__INIT] Starting main loop...

There it is...