Ok finaly got it working again. What I did was to remove the credentials for the login server. In the EQEMU_CONFIG.XML under the Login Server information I removed the login name and password and the servers show up fine.
Code:
EQEMU_CONFIG.XML
<!-- Loginserver information. -->
<loginserver>
<host>192.168.1.65</host>
<port>5999</port>
<account></account>
<password></password>
</loginserver>
I guess the loginserver information communicates with world servers but not in the way I thought

Ok going to go play some more hope this helps others who have the same headache!