Cannot connect to private server from outside home network

[Nightrider84]

So this looks wrong to me.

},
"tcp": {
"ip": "0.0.0.0",
"port": "9001"
},
"telnet": {
"ip": "0.0.0.0",
"port": "9000",
"enabled": "true"

It should be

},
"tcp": {
"ip": "127.0.0.1", <------------------Change to this
"port": "9001"
},
"telnet": {
"ip": "127.0.0.1", <------------------Change to this
"port": "9000",
"enabled": "true"

Also this looks off as well

"address": " 99.8.62.1",
"localaddress": "192.168.1.81",
"loginserver1": {
"port": "5998",
"account": "",
"password": "",
"host": "login.eqemulator.net",
"legacy": "1"
},
"loginserver2": {
"account": "",
"password": "",
"host": "192.168.1.81",
"port": "5998"
},
"loginserver3": {
"account": "",
"password": "",
"host": "99.8.62.1",
"port": "5999"

You need to have your Account and password for the validation server.

"address": " 99.8.62.1",
"localaddress": "192.168.1.81",
"loginserver1": {
"port": "5998",
"account": "", <------------------Change to your World Server Account Login
"password": "", <------------------Change to your World Server Account Password
"host": "login.eqemulator.net",
"legacy": "1"
},
"loginserver2": {
"account": "",
"password": "",
"host": "192.168.1.81",
"port": "5998"
},
"loginserver3": {
"account": "",
"password": "",
"host": "login.projecteq.net", <------------------Change to this
"port": "5999"

Last bit I would recommend is going to NOIP website and create a dynamic DNS. It will update whenever your IP address changes because of power outtages modem restarts ect.
You would replace 99.8.62.1 with whatever you created for the DNS. Also make sure you put the DNS in your EQhost file.
So it would look like

[LoginServer]
Host=YOUR DNS HERE:5999