CONFUSION: Would someone clear this up?

[Jaludin]

OK i got 3.10 eqemu, i have the 10-21 patch becuz i had to do a full factory restore and lost all my old stuff (stupid windows) I have the item databases and all but either I can't create a character in eqemu servers (freeze at name) or I get invalid version when I try to use minilogin to play LAN with bro... This is a real pain could someone please please PLEASE clear this up I got downright confused! Without 3.9 minilogin my world.exe gets incorrect version and I cant play, with it my game gets incorrect version and I cant play, am I screwed both ways until a newer emu comes out because all these guides are really starting to confuse me when I read so many different ones that say the same thing (local host/127.0.0.1 for minilogin, I do use mysql, all that is set up only version error/name error)