crash after char screen on my own live server

[MOHAA]

i keep crashing after the toon screen, it acts like its loading then bamm im back to the server select. ive updated the server and db.
it all works with i run it on my lan. but not if i post it live. my patch for eq is correct for i can use other servers.

im have my server on the same pc im useing eq. i have had this to work before. but i had a pc crash had to fix all back. im wondering since im useing a 36k connection for that is the best dialup i can get.

well heres my word shell
Zoneserver SetConnectInfo: 127.0.0.1:1300: localhost:799
999980 New client from ip: 172.154.201.205 port: 1307
Logged in: LS#12955: MOHAA
Guild Send Request...
Sending character information.
Unknown opcode: 0x3541 size:2056
Unknown opcode: 0x3941 size:2056
Unknown opcode: 0x9240 size:12
0: 00 00 00 0A 00 00 00 00 - 00 00 00 00
Attempting autobootup of 'rivervale' for Bellan
Broadcasting a world time update
Zoneserver SetZone: localhost:7999 rivervale
Charlogin: Bellan
Enter world: Bellan: rivervale
Broadcasting a world time update
Zoneserver SetZone: localhost:7999 rivervale
Broadcasting a world time update
Client disconnected
Removing client from ip:172.154.201.205 port:1307
Zoneserver SetZone: localhost:7999
Broadcasting a world time update
Broadcasting a world time update
Zoneserver SetZone: localhost:7999
Broadcasting a world time update

im at a lost very confused

pls send me a post