Below is what worked for me when I used Minilogin. Some of the stuff you have in there isn't needed, but I big one is where you should change StandAlone to MiniLogin. Also make sure you change the Logintype to MiniLogin in the variables table in the database.
This might be real anal but something to try. Change all of your IP addresses in the eqemuconfig file to 192.168.0.3
And lastly, you have to set the minilogin id in the account table in the database to the IPV4 address of the computer you are logging in from. If you are hosting on the same computer that you are going to play from, it would be 192.168.0.3 as you have your EQEmu set up from this post.
Code:
[LoginServer]
loginserver=192.168.1.101
loginserver2=
loginport=5999
loginport2=
worldname=
worldaddress=
locked=false
account=
password=
[WorldServer]
Defaultstatus=
Unavailzone=
[ChatChannelServer]
worldshortname=
chataddress=
chatport=
[LoginConfig]
ServerMode=MiniLogin
ServerPort=5999