Cannot login to my own server

[Shin Noir]

I don't know where you got the instructions you followed, but in the eqemu docs, you'll see supported clients: https://docs.eqemu.io/#supported-clients

RoF2 is the latest supported client.

You can tell by your screenshot (the truebox column, among the UI) that you're using the latest EQ client (LS). This is not supported by eqemu. So, you need to get the RoF2 client.

If you don't own an RoF2 client, you can check out the ezserver getting started http://wiki.ezserver.online/Getting_Started or other means to obtain it.