Yeah I wouldn't think it was a MiniLogin problem. Doesn't MiniLogin just handle logging in? My friend logged in with no problems. Though I did notice that when I log in it says something like
Code:
xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx matched user 'eqemu'
in the MiniLogin window.
When he logs in it doesn't display anything (even though I've got him set up in the MiniLoginAccounts.ini file), but he still can get into the world, so maybe that's where the problem lies. Maybe since he's not getting properly authorized, when I /tell him, the world doesn't see him as a valid client. Same as with /who all.