Help with Server Set up

[nadr man]

I'm makin a server just to play around with and work on my programming skills. I'm following the "HOWTO: Host&Play on same PC - Step by Step" and the Big Lan Book. Right now, i've followed everything up to creating the EQ DB (in the big lan book). I've been playing around with shutting off the mysql programs (the traffic light things in the tool bar, they dissappear after awhile and i want to shut them down: they're doubling my cpu usage)...anyway, i right click on the traffic light and do "show me" i goto the DB tab and right click, but i only get the Flush commands, no "create DB".

EDIT- I started to follow HOWTO: Setup a server with EQEmu 5.X
and that began to clear things up, but i'm ready to start with world.exe and an error pops up tellin me that it won't except the password given.

Any help would be great. thanks