So far it looks like your headed in the right direction... But do this for me... Telnet into your router after a long period of NO internet activity (90 + seconds) and do a show NAT.
Post that here. So I can see what your blank NAT looks like. It should have these new static NAT entries in there if all is well... But looking at what you posted, a few things worry me. Mainly these four lines:
192.168.0.2: 9000 63.228.xx.xxx: 9000 30 0x2041 ***
192.168.0.2: 9000 63.228.xx.xxx: 9000 0 0x41 tcp
192.168.0.2: 9000 63.228.xx.xxx: 9000 0 0x41 tcp
192.168.0.2:*****63.228.xx.xxx:***** 0 0x3041 ***
I'm worried you accidently put the same thing in too many times.. plus you stumbled accross that last one... Well the last one just aint right!
Either way if that is the case.. No biggy we can just blow them ALL out and I will just cut and Paste exactly what you need to input.
P.S. How is you eqemu failing at this point exactly?