Have you tried these?
Code:
Start -> Run -> "cmd"
cd C:\eqemu\EQEmu Release
world adduser YourEmuLogin YourEmuPassword 200
And if that doesn't work:
Code:
Run mysql.exe and execute the following commands:
use YourEQDatabaseName;
INSERT INTO account SET name='YourEmuLogin', password='YourEmuPassword', status=200;
What puzzles me is why you're trying to use eqlogin1.eqemulator.net as your login server when your IP is a local network address. I'd imagine it would show your server on the server selection, but only those on your local network would be able to access it, and it would be using their board name/passwords. If you're going to run a private server, perhaps you should just use minilogin and set up seperate accounts per network IP.