Kensupen,
Only problem with that approach is that you wouldn't be able to connect to your own server with those settings. Machines behind your router wouldn't be able to connect.
I did what you mentioned above and outside folks were able to connect to the minilogin server and then to the world server, but I was only able to connect to the login (not world due to worldaddress=my.externral.ip.addy). When I changed the setting to worldaddress=my.internal.ip.addy, then I could play but outside folks couldnt.
My advise is to get your EQEmu server outside of your router, or better yet, get Emu running on Linux and make your Linux machine act as the router