The only version(s) of SoD verified to work were those downloaded from Steam. Someone posted a few days ago that they got it from Amazon and that it was only around a 600MB download, whereas SoD should be around 7.5GB.
http://www.eqemulator.org/forums/sho...ghlight=amazon
If your SoD directory is only around 600MB or so, that is most likely why it is not working. SOE expects purchasers to run the patcher and therefore they will download all the missing files automatically. This is no good for EQEmu as we are not compatible with EQLive (House Of Thule).
If your install looks good (7GB or so), then you could post your logs\dbg.txt file as that might indicate where the client is failing.