Thanks for reply guys at least I know it worked at some point.
I started with eqeum revision 2018 and PEQ database revision 1900 (the one with db_dump.sql instead of the rev #) then sourced in all eqemu changes starting with 1908_required_npc_types_definitions.sql up through 2004_charges_alt_currency.sql. I also later found you need to include two *special* sql files even after db version 1900:
1711_account_restricted_aa.sql
1723_required_sql_corruption.sql
This is a very recent set up, I started this around 9/22/2011 and most guides are pretty old by version standard so it is possible that something was broken in the db or the eqemu along the way with stops ignore_primary_assist=1 from being effective.
I am a little wary of the main PEQ database setup file revisionion changed from the format "peqdb_Rev1667.sql" to "db_dump.sql" seems like there is some loss of continuity there and most likey the place something changed making the ignore_primary_assist=1 not work.
If anyone has this ignore_primary_assist=1 without reducing aggroradius using the most current peq database I would be interested to hear. For now using the combination is good enough
Thanks