OK Update!
After doing some heavy searching on the internet. I have learned a few things I just want to confirm with the community!
When Port Forwarding.
 After applying the proper forwards in the router(i.e 5998.99 +7000-7100+9000) In order for you to ping the port and actually receive the open signal, a program has to be listening on your side. In this case the server.
The best description I came across was this.
"You live in an apartment building with 1000 different apartments. All the apartments use the same street address (IP address). In order for visitors to get to the right person (service), they need to know the apartment number (port).
Now a reporter comes to the apartment building wanting to talk to the person living in apartment 80, but the doorman (firewall) stops them from coming into the apartment building. The reporter writes that they were unable to speak to the person in apartment 80 (could not establish a connection).
The resident of apartment 80 tells the doorman to allow all reporters to come visit him (forward a port). The next time the reporter comes, the doorman allows him into the building. The reporter knocks on the door of apartment 80... but the resident is not at home (application not running). The reporter again writes that they were unable to speak to the person in apartment 80 (could not establish a connection)." -Thanks to muiredised on 
http://www.dslreports.com/forum/r210...help-~start=20.
So after having launched the server I am now receiving and Open signal on port 9000! Great right? I dunno... because i'm unsure of a few of these ports and their functions. So I am going to ask you to clarify.
When launching the server from my understanding this is how it works.
The server connects to eqemu via port 5998 and or 5999, right? So the .xml file is not telling the server to listen for a ping on that port. So of course 
http://www.canyouseeme.org/ is going to tell me a connection is refused on either 5998 or 5999 right, because my application (server) is not listening there. The server is only using those two ports to tell eqemu that "I am there".
Ports 7000-7100 Are on the same status, just sent to localhost instead of eqemu (i.e Someone wants to zone into Gfay so the server says lets send that client through port 7006, so the World.exe is talking with zone.exe?? and just doing a through-hole loop there, with no information being sent to the client(player) or eqemu. Right?
Port 9000- The one and only port I am currently getting an open signal from, This is because when someone clicks to connect to my server, My server is only listening for a connection on that port and eqemu knows im there because of port 5998/99. That single port services all connections, so if that is true how those ports work, there should be no hassle in trying to connect to the server from outside the network.
Well at this point and time, I have the server up and unlocked anxiously awaiting for someone to attempt to connect. So i can find out if it works, and if not receive the log file.
A side note, in cmd I ran 'netstat -a' to hopefully see everything that my network was connecting to and from, as far as ports. Here is what I saw
Microsoft Windows [Version 6.0.6001]
Copyright (c) 2006 Microsoft Corporation.  All rights reserved.
C:\Users\Nick>netstat -a
Active Connections
  Proto  Local Address          Foreign Address        State
  TCP    0.0.0.0:135            Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    0.0.0.0:445            Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    0.0.0.0:554            Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    0.0.0.0:2869           Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    0.0.0.0:3306           Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    0.0.0.0:5357           Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    0.0.0.0:9000           Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    0.0.0.0:10243          Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    0.0.0.0:49152          Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    0.0.0.0:49153          Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    0.0.0.0:49154          Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    0.0.0.0:49155          Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    0.0.0.0:49156          Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    0.0.0.0:49157          Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    0.0.0.0:49217          Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    127.0.0.1:2559         Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    127.0.0.1:3306         Nick-PC:60875          ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:3306         Nick-PC:61001          ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:3306         Nick-PC:61161          ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:3306         Nick-PC:61179          ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:3306         Nick-PC:61197          ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:3306         Nick-PC:61215          ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:9000         Nick-PC:60960          ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:9000         Nick-PC:61042          ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:9000         Nick-PC:61164          ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:9000         Nick-PC:61182          ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:9000         Nick-PC:61200          ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:9000         Nick-PC:61218          ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:10501        Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    127.0.0.1:10501        Nick-PC:62114          ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:10502        Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    127.0.0.1:10502        Nick-PC:62115          ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:58338        Nick-PC:22588          SYN_SENT
  TCP    127.0.0.1:58339        Nick-PC:25951          SYN_SENT
  TCP    127.0.0.1:58340        Nick-PC:25951          SYN_SENT
  TCP    127.0.0.1:58341        Nick-PC:12583          SYN_SENT
  TCP    127.0.0.1:58342        Nick-PC:15391          SYN_SENT
  TCP    127.0.0.1:58343        Nick-PC:25951          SYN_SENT
  TCP    127.0.0.1:58344        Nick-PC:12583          SYN_SENT
  TCP    127.0.0.1:58345        Nick-PC:15391          SYN_SENT
  TCP    127.0.0.1:58346        Nick-PC:10516          SYN_SENT
  TCP    127.0.0.1:58347        Nick-PC:10516          SYN_SENT
  TCP    127.0.0.1:60875        Nick-PC:3306           ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:60960        Nick-PC:9000           ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:61001        Nick-PC:3306           ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:61042        Nick-PC:9000           ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:61161        Nick-PC:3306           ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:61164        Nick-PC:9000           ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:61179        Nick-PC:3306           ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:61182        Nick-PC:9000           ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:61197        Nick-PC:3306           ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:61200        Nick-PC:9000           ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:61215        Nick-PC:3306           ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:61218        Nick-PC:9000           ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:62114        Nick-PC:10501          ESTABLISHED
  TCP    127.0.0.1:62115        Nick-PC:10502          ESTABLISHED
  TCP    192.168.1.X:139        Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    192.168.1.X:56936      ord08s07-in-f3:http    ESTABLISHED
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57359      ord08s07-in-f0:http    ESTABLISHED
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57360      ord08s07-in-f25:http   ESTABLISHED
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57362      ord08s07-in-f26:http   ESTABLISHED
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57363      ord08s07-in-f26:http   ESTABLISHED
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57364      ord08s07-in-f26:http   ESTABLISHED
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57365      64.208.126.35:http     TIME_WAIT
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57366      64.208.126.35:http     TIME_WAIT
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57367      64.208.126.35:http     TIME_WAIT
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57388      event:http             TIME_WAIT
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57389      event:http             TIME_WAIT
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57393      173.225.27.80:http     TIME_WAIT
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57394      173.225.27.80:http     TIME_WAIT
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57395      64.208.126.74:http     TIME_WAIT
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57396      64.208.126.74:http     TIME_WAIT
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57397      64.208.126.74:http     TIME_WAIT
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57398      media:http             TIME_WAIT
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57399      media:http             TIME_WAIT
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57400      media:http             TIME_WAIT
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57403      ord08s07-in-f27:http   ESTABLISHED
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57410      ord08s07-in-f27:http   TIME_WAIT
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57413      cds98:http             TIME_WAIT
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57414      cds98:http             TIME_WAIT
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57415      cds98:http             TIME_WAIT
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57416      ord08s07-in-f25:http   ESTABLISHED
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57474      174-143-26-240:http    TIME_WAIT
  TCP    192.168.1.X:57475      174-143-26-240:http    TIME_WAIT
  TCP    192.168.1.X:60927      eqemulator:5998        ESTABLISHED
  TCP    [::]:135               Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    [::]:445               Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    [::]:554               Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    [::]:2869              Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    [::]:5357              Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    [::]:10243             Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    [::]:49152             Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    [::]:49153             Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    [::]:49154             Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    [::]:49155             Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    [::]:49156             Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    [::]:49157             Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  TCP    [::]:49217             Nick-PC:0              LISTENING
  UDP    0.0.0.0:123            *:*
  UDP    0.0.0.0:427            *:*
  UDP    0.0.0.0:500            *:*
  UDP    0.0.0.0:3702           *:*
  UDP    0.0.0.0:3702           *:*
  UDP    0.0.0.0:3702           *:*
  UDP    0.0.0.0:3702           *:*
  UDP    0.0.0.0:4500           *:*
  UDP    0.0.0.0:5004           *:*
  UDP    0.0.0.0:5005           *:*
  UDP    0.0.0.0:5355           *:*
  UDP    0.0.0.0:7000           *:*
  UDP    0.0.0.0:7001           *:*
  UDP    0.0.0.0:7002           *:*
  UDP    0.0.0.0:7003           *:*
  UDP    0.0.0.0:7004           *:*
  UDP    0.0.0.0:9000           *:*
  UDP    0.0.0.0:51462          *:*
  UDP    0.0.0.0:53581          *:*
  UDP    0.0.0.0:63210          *:*
  UDP    127.0.0.1:1900         *:*
  UDP    127.0.0.1:48000        *:*
  UDP    127.0.0.1:48001        *:*
  UDP    127.0.0.1:53180        *:*
  UDP    127.0.0.1:55228        *:*
  UDP    127.0.0.1:56096        *:*
  UDP    127.0.0.1:56154        *:*
  UDP    127.0.0.1:64299        *:*
  UDP    127.0.0.1:64349        *:*
  UDP    192.168.1.2:137        *:*
  UDP    192.168.1.2:138        *:*
  UDP    192.168.1.2:427        *:*
  UDP    192.168.1.2:1900       *:*
  UDP    192.168.1.2:55227      *:*
  UDP    [::]:123               *:*
  UDP    [::]:500               *:*
  UDP    [::]:3702              *:*
  UDP    [::]:3702              *:*
  UDP    [::]:3702              *:*
  UDP    [::]:3702              *:*
  UDP    [::]:5004              *:*
  UDP    [::]:5005              *:*
  UDP    [::]:5355              *:*
  UDP    [::]:51463             *:*
  UDP    [::]:53582             *:*
  UDP    [::1]:1900             *:*
  UDP    [::1]:55225            *:*
  UDP    [fe80::ffff:ffff:fffe%9]:1900  *:*
  UDP    [fe80::ffff:ffff:fffe%9]:55226  *:*
  UDP    [fe80::d9bf:68bf:d502:9684%8]:1900  *:*
  UDP    [fe80::d9bf:68bf:d502:9684%8]:55224  *:*