still cant connect, sorry Im so annoying :(

[Garabaya]

See, I installed Windows XP SP1a (spanish version since Im from spain) I have installed, or tried (cause even though the file is 5 mbs, the screen flashes in a moment when I tell it to install and says its done, and I know that my comp aint THAT fast) the MDAC 2.7, english, and Spanish version. I have installed the eqemu patcher in the EQ folder, having three new files there, a dll, the path.exe program, and the logfile. still when I run the patch.exe it says I cant connect to the server. I have tried shutting down zonealarm, checked if xp's firewall was on (it wasnt) and I use no router. can someone help me please?